Neo, so okay you could say no, but that brings a lot of questions about you... its hard to believe that if a unbelievable woman propositioned you and you said no, who are you lying in bed next to? Obviously someone far more incendiary than either two. I say good for you, but let me say this, my wife would tell you that if either propose me, I'd pass out. period, she knows I know they are in another league. so there is no worry. so macho up and tell the truth.